I really appreciate your comment Alan. I hated seeing Will Smith in pain too. It's confusing for me because from their comments in the past it was a as if they'd agreed that being attracting to other people and even having relationships with them would be fine, but then when it happened it wasn't fine. But, I guess that's often true isn't it? You think you'll be fine but it always hurts more and is more complicated than expected. Many thanks for reading!